Hello all

As this is a topic that has recently surfaced at my school, I couldn't refrain from comment. First, let me say that I will be testing for my student black in two weeks and that I'm also 17 (I'll turn 18 about two weeks after promotions). I felt very humbled to be offered the chance to earn my belt because I knew I wouldn't be 18 at the time of testing. I've been training very hard in preparation for my test and have been working with my fellow students who have been gracious enough to share their time, energy, and even their homes with me. I've also been told that I've changed much over the past 6 months (owed very much to my Sifu and fellow students). I've gone from a very mousy, nearly invisible person, to a much stronger and well-rounded identity (I'm still working on my assertiveness

).
However, among the students testing for their student black, there is a 15 year old. I feel a bit hypocritical saying this because I don’t believe I’m a full adult, but I agree with Sigung Bishop that a black belt is an adult responsibility. At 15 years, a person is still in the throws of puberty and emotions are running wild. This student has not demonstrated a good attitude, level of maturity,
or respect towards their fellow students. This person has even developed a rather large ego. Of course, this person doesn’t represent all 15 year olds, but you’ll see where I’m going. I think 15 is just too young for anyone to be a black belt. The Junior High and High School years are very turbulent. The majority of your time is spent arguing with your parents and trying to find your
identity while sorting through cliques, hormones, and messages sent through the media. I’m a firm believer that a black belt is a part of your being and not just something you wear. You must not only be willing to develop physically, but mentally as well. I don’t think it’s possible in today’s society to become a properly balanced person until you approach 17-18. That is the time when the body’s chemical start to settle down and (in my case

) normal body parts arrive.
respectfully,
Blucky125